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What can I do if my employer is pressuring me to sign something?

Anne-Marie Dolan
Oct 19
5 min read

“Sign it today, or the offer is off the table.”


When your employer puts a document in front of you, it can be hard to push back. You might worry about losing your job, upsetting your manager or missing out on money you need.


But a signature is often final. Whether it is a new employment agreement, changed conditions or a settlement, you need to understand what you are agreeing to. If you are unsure, pause and get advice before accepting.


Signed contract. Auckland, Wellington, Christchurch. Man with head on desk and hourglass timer.

What can I say if my employer is pressuring me to sign?

You do not need to argue or explain your whole situation. Keep your response calm and clear:


“Thank you for giving me this. I need time to read it and get independent advice before I can decide. Please give me a copy to take away.”


If they say it is just standard paperwork, and you don't need advice, try:


“I understand this may be standard for the business. I still need to understand what it means for me before I agree.”


If you feel overwhelmed, ask to pause the meeting and speak with a representative or support person. Ask for an interpreter if you need one.  


Avoid saying “I accept” or emailing your agreement just to end the conversation. Depending on the circumstances, your words or actions may matter even without a signature.


What if it is a new employment agreement?

Before entering into an individual employment agreement, your employer must give you the intended agreement, advise you of your right to independent advice, and give you a reasonable opportunity to get it. They must also consider and respond to issues you raise.  


There is no single waiting period that suits every situation. What is reasonable depends on the circumstances, including the document and your ability to obtain advice.


Check more than the pay rate. Look at guaranteed hours, duties, location, trial periods, notice, deductions and restrictions on working elsewhere or after leaving.


Do not assume you can start work and sort everything out later. Ask for advice before your start date if important terms remain unresolved.


What if they are changing my existing employment conditions?

A new document may change your current job, even if your employer calls it an update.  For example, it might reduce guaranteed hours, change your pay or add a restraint of trade.


Changes to agreed contractual terms generally need agreement. However, some workplace changes may already be allowed by your existing agreement. A reasonable instruction within your current role is different from a change to your contract.


Ask for a copy showing exactly what has changed and why. If you have not agreed, say so in writing. Silence or working under new arrangements can create arguments about whether you accepted them.  

Do not simply ignore instructions or stop attending work. Get advice about how to protect your position while the issue is addressed.


What if it is a settlement or exit agreement?

Take particular care if the document ends your employment or settles a dispute. A payment may come with conditions such as resigning, keeping matters confidential, limiting what you can say about your employer or giving up employment claims.


Ask:

  • What money is extra, and what is pay or holiday pay already owed?

  • When will payment be made, and what deductions apply?

  • Am I agreeing to resign, and on what date?

  • Which claims am I settling?

  • What can I say afterwards, and to whom?

  • What reference or statement of service will I receive?


A record of settlement signed by an authorised MBIE mediator under section 149 of the Employment Relations Act is final and binding. You generally cannot reopen it because you regret the deal. Do not assume there is a cooling-off period.


A private agreement may also have legal consequences before mediator sign-off. Get advice before accepting any version.


What if they give me an ultimatum?

“Sign now or lose your job” is a serious warning sign. Pressure or threats may raise issues of unfair bargaining or other employment breaches. However, a deadline does not automatically make an offer unlawful or an agreement invalid.


Ask for a specific extension:


“I received this today and have not had an opportunity to get advice. Please extend the deadline until 5 pm on Thursday so I can make an informed decision. I will respond by then.”


Choose a realistic date and contact an adviser straight away. If they refuse, say:


“I am not agreeing to these terms or resigning. Please confirm the deadline, the reason for refusing more time, and what you say will happen if I do not sign.”


Follow up by email. Record when you received the document, what was said and your request for time. Keep copies of documents you are entitled to hold.


An extension request does not automatically keep an offer open. A settlement offer might expire. An employer may also continue a lawful process, such as a disciplinary or restructuring process. An adviser can help you weigh those risks and respond urgently.


When should I get help?  Who should I ask?

Get help before signing if you do not understand a clause, feel threatened, face a short deadline or may lose your job or employment claims.


An employment advocate can review the document, explain your options and negotiate on your behalf. If you belong to a union, contact your organiser or delegate.


Employment New Zealand provides general information. Community Law or Citizens Advice Bureau may help you find advice. A trusted support person can help you stay calm and take notes, but may not have the knowledge to assess the agreement. HR acts for the employer and is not your independent adviser.


If you have already signed, or are feeling pressure to do so, seek advice promptly. .  At Mathews Walker, our employment advocates can help you understand your position and respond when you feel pressured at work. Contact us before signing so we can discuss how we may be able to help.


MathewsWalker.co.nz | Employment Problems Solved | 0800 612 355




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